

As someone who constantly overthinks every decision (yes, I spent 20 minutes choosing a cereal brand yesterday), this book felt like therapy in paperback form. The way Nick Trenton breaks down negative thought patterns is incredibly relatable - it's like he's been eavesdropping on my anxious brain.
The real game-changer for me was Chapter 4 where he explains how to recognize and stop emotional spirals. I actually used these techniques during a work crisis last week and avoided my usual panic mode. That alone made the book worth its price tag.
However, I do agree with some reviewers about the repetitive sections. There were moments where I caught myself thinking 'Didn't I just read this two pages ago?' The lack of professional editing shows, especially in the middle chapters that could've been more concise.
What surprised me most was how practical the advice feels compared to other self-help books. Instead of vague platitudes, Trenton gives actual exercises you can implement immediately. My favorite is the 'thought-stopping' technique that's become my mental reset button during stressful days.
While it's not perfect (that repetition issue is real), I'd still recommend this to anyone stuck in negative thought cycles. It's like having a patient, understanding friend walk you through untangling your mental knots - complete with occasional reminders that do feel a bit redundant after awhile.
