First off, let me say this incense burner is a stunner. The glossy black finish and intricate details make it a conversation starter on my bookshelf. I love how the smoke flows from her lips—it’s hypnotic to watch during my evening wind-down routine.

That said, there’s a learning curve. Like other reviewers mentioned, the cone compartment is tight. I learned quickly that slamming the little door kills the flame (RIP my first three cones). Now I just light it outside the holder and gently place it inside—smoke pours from both sides of her mouth, which honestly looks kinda cool, like she’s dramatically exhaling.

The size surprised me too—it’s more delicate than the photos suggest. But that works for my small apartment. It fits perfectly on my narrow console table without overwhelming the space. Pro tip: Use shorter incense cones unless you want smoke curling around her forehead like some mystical headband.

Despite the quirks, I’m obsessed. Burning sandalwood while this elegant lady ‘smokes’ makes my WFH afternoons feel like a spa ritual. Just know you might need to MacGyver your technique a bit!