If you've ever experienced the pain of losing a loved one or going through a divorce, 'New Normal' by Michelle Paris is a book that will resonate deeply. The author's raw honesty and humor make this more than just a story—it's a lifeline for anyone struggling to find hope again.
What stood out to me was how Paris balances vulnerability with wit. One moment, I was tearing up at Emilee's grief; the next, I was chuckling at her awkward attempts at dating. The scene where she spills wine on herself during a disastrous first date? Relatable AF.
The book does have its critics—some found the 'find new love' narrative repetitive. Personally? As someone who's been through loss, I appreciated seeing all facets of healing portrayed. Not every self-discovery journey looks the same.
Pro tip: Keep tissues AND wine handy while reading. Paris' writing has this magical way of making you laugh through tears—like that emotional scene where Emilee finally scatters her husband's ashes, only to have the wind blow them back in her face. Tragic? Yes. Darkly hilarious? Absolutely.
While the beginning drags slightly (stick with it!), the second half shines—especially when supporting characters like sassy best friend Colin enter the picture. Their girls' night out chapter had me snort-laughing so hard I woke my cat.
Final verdict? 4/5 stars for being that rare book about grief that doesn't drown in melancholy. It's like getting life advice from your funniest friend who's been through hell—and came out wiser (and with better dating stories) on the other side.