Let me start by saying that 'The Friend' is not just a book—it's an experience. As someone who's both a dog lover and a sucker for deeply introspective literature, this novel (or is it a memoir? A meditation?) hit me right in the feels.
The way Nunez writes about Apollo, the Great Dane left in her care after her friend's suicide, is nothing short of magical. I found myself constantly pausing to pet my own dog while reading, feeling that profound connection Nunez describes so beautifully.
What struck me most was how the book makes you feel the weight of unspoken grief—both human and canine. There were moments when Apollo's silent mourning brought actual tears to my eyes. The scene where he waits by the door? Gut-wrenching.
The writing advice scattered throughout is gold dust for any aspiring writer. Nunez's observations about character creation ("exaggerate those special traits") immediately went into my writing journal.
That said, if you're looking for a traditional plot-driven novel, this might frustrate you. The narrative meanders through memories and musings like a thoughtful afternoon walk with an old friend.
Also worth noting: The #MeToo era reflections on her mentor's problematic behavior add fascinating layers to what could have been simple hero worship. It's uncomfortable but necessary reading.
Pro tip: Keep tissues handy—not just for sad moments, but for those breathtakingly beautiful passages about what it means to love and be loved, across species and beyond death.